Personal stories and thoughtful observations about modern dating, relationships, attraction, texting, ghosting, connection, and the stories we create in between.
Looking for Love: The Stories We Create in the Gaps
In modern dating, a vague text can become an entire story. A reflection on how we fill in missing tone, create fantasies, assume disinterest, and sometimes confuse interpretation with reality.
Looking for Love: Is Your Dating Profile an Introduction or a Warning?
Looking for Love: Is It Intuition, Fear… or a Pattern?
Sometimes the hardest part of dating isn’t seeing the signs. It’s knowing whether you’re recognizing a familiar pattern or letting an old fear speak for you. I’m learning there is a difference between bringing the past into something new and recognizing when the past has already taught me this lesson.
Looking for Love & Ghosting: What Dating Taught Me About Goodbye
What does ghosting really say about modern dating? A personal reflection on love, silence, emotional responsibility, and how dating changed the way I think about endings.
Maybe Love Starts Outside the House
What if the problem isn’t that love is hard to find, but that we’ve made ourselves a little too hard to find? After years of work, home, family, errands, and online dating, I’m beginning to wonder if meeting someone naturally starts with something much simpler: stepping outside the routine and becoming more available to life.
Looking for Love in the Modern World
Looking for love in the modern world can teach us as much about ourselves as it does about the people we meet. After five very different connections over three months, I began to see the difference between chemistry and readiness, attention and intention, and connection that feels good versus connection that can actually grow.